Hi there,
My name is Claire Willis. I came across the helpful sexual violence resources you shared at socialmetoo.org/help and was wondering if you were open to adding a new resource to that page.
I work for an advocacy center called Helping Survivors, a proud partner of RAINN. Our mission is to assist anyone who has been victimized by sexual assault or abuse. Our website is a compilation of information around different instances of sexual violence. We offer resources to assist survivors and their families, and we will continuously be adding more. To see our organization and some of the helpful information we have made, check out the link below:
Helping Survivors - helpingsurvivors.org/rideshare-sexual-assault/
What's important to us is providing resources and help for those that need. I think our advocacy site could be a useful addition to your page for that reason. If you agree, would you consider sharing a link to our organization on your site?
If you do not want to receive anymore emails from me, please reply letting me know you're not interested.
Thank you so much for your time. Have a great day,
Claire
Trigger warning: This story contains descriptions of domestic abuse, emotional trauma, and miscarriage, which may be distressing for some readers. Reader discretion is advised.
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In the hushed glow of Iceland’s Northern Lights, Dr Aninda Sidhana stood in awe. The sky pulsed with emerald and violet ribbons of light, and for the first time in years, she felt light.
“When I was watching the huge glaciers, I felt my problems were small. This glimpse of pure magic reminded me how beautiful life can still be.”
She laughed with strangers, posed for photos, wandered along quiet beaches, and soaked in the warmth of the Blue Lagoon. This wasn’t just a vacation—it was the first time in years she felt truly free. After everything she had endured, this journey marked a return to herself.
“I felt a genuine sense of excitement... I felt liberated and happy.”
This moment, under foreign skies, marked a turning point. A psychiatrist by profession, Dr Aninda had survived two abusive marriages and two miscarriages. She had endured trauma that left lasting scars. But here, alone and smiling, she reclaimed something she thought she had lost forever: herself.
Dr Aninda with Dr Ishita Anand during her Iceland trip.
Surviving what so many endure in silence
According to the National Family Health Survey (NFHS-5), nearly 30 percent of Indian women have experienced domestic violence. Many suffer in silence, caught between emotional ties, societal pressure, and the hope that things will change.
Dr Aninda’s story is one of those rare accounts where survival is not the end of the story; it’s the beginning of rebuilding. Today, she shares her journey not to recount the pain, but to light a path for others walking through it.
When love hurt: The first marriage
Fresh out of medical school in Puducherry, Dr Aninda landed her dream job at the Institute of Human Behaviour and Allied Sciences (IHBAS) in Delhi in 2013. Full of optimism and joy, she looked forward to beginning her career in psychiatry. It was here she met her first husband, a fellow psychiatrist.
“I fell deeply in love with him,” she recalls. “We soon tied the knot, believing that our shared profession and passion for mental health would be the foundation of a fulfilling marriage.”
But the illusion shattered on the very night of their wedding.
“On stage, his sister openly mocked me, calling me ‘fat and horrible’. When I confessed my hurt, he slapped me. That night, my dreams of a fairy tale were destroyed.”
Dr Aninda during her solo journey to Iceland.
What followed was three years of escalating abuse. “He hurled objects, spat at me, and once, assaulted me with hot curry,” she recounts. “In public, he was affectionate, even surprising me with a decorated car for our anniversary. But the private reality was cruel and manipulative.”
Despite her training in psychiatry, she admits she couldn’t recognise the red flags early on. “In my denial and love, I overlooked the signs.”
Finally, in 2018, she gathered the courage to leave.
Commenting on why women tend to overlook the first signs of abuse, Dr Sugandha Gupta, a Delhi-based psychiatrist, shares, “Many individuals do not immediately recognise abuse due to the shock of the first occurrence. They live in the hope that the incident will not be repeated. This often keeps them from acknowledging it as abuse.”
She adds, “Social stigma, emotional needs, and societal expectations often prevent women from leaving abusive relationships, even if they are financially independent. Although financial independence can help, it does not eliminate the societal pressures and emotional dependencies that keep individuals in abusive relationships.”
Healing begins with friendship
Dr Aninda with her friend Dr Shweta Raina during their Dharamshala trip.
Returning to her hometown in Sri Ganganagar, Rajasthan, she was weighed down with guilt and grief. “I feared judgment because I had rushed into the marriage. But my friends became my lifeline.”
One friend organised a surprise birthday trip to Dharamshala. “Sitting on a balcony with chai, trekking through mountains—I felt like a free bird again. People saw the photos and said I looked like my old self.”
These moments were the first signs of healing. They reminded her that life outside abuse was not only possible but worth living.
The second blow: A marriage of surveillance
In 2021, she remarried—an arranged match with a physician. But soon, old patterns resurfaced.
“There were CCTV cameras watching me at all times. I was subjected to constant criticism, control, and eventually violence,” she says.
Through this period, Dr Aninda underwent three IVF and two IUI cycles, enduring two miscarriages.
“It was the hardest and most isolating time of my life. My in-laws pressured me to have a male child or twins. There was no emotional or financial support. I stayed with my parents through the cycles, alone in pain.”
She adds, “Any failure was blamed on my weight and supposed incapability to bear a child. My career was secondary to my reproductive role.”
Dr Aninda started her healing journey by focusing on her mental well-being and excelling in her career.
Dr Aninda started her healing journey by focusing on her mental well-being and excelling in her career.
The final turning point came when she discovered evidence of infidelity. When she confronted her husband, his violent outburst was met with silence from his family. That was the day she walked away.
“I finally found the strength to walk away—not just from a marriage, but from a life defined by fear.”
A new beginning: therapy, writing, and solo travel
Recovery didn’t happen overnight. “In my first therapy session, I asked: ‘Was it me? Was I the problem?’” Her therapist replied, “You were never meant to be caged. Abuse is never your fault.”
Those words marked the beginning of a new life.
Dr Aninda began journaling and writing blogs. “The reflective power of words became my therapy. I discovered a podcast of a woman who had also survived two abusive marriages. Her story gave me hope. I thought, if she can rise, so can I.”
At the encouragement of her uncle, Dr Ravinder Sharma, she planned a solo trip to Iceland. Speaking with The Better India, Dr Ravinder says, “I reassured her that once she stepped out of this toxic environment, she would gain a new, positive perspective. After several conversations, Aninda decided to take action. She organised her trip, managed her bookings, and made her way to Iceland.”
Dr Aninda returned with a renewed sense of freedom. “That trip changed everything. I laughed with strangers, posed for pictures, felt fully alive. That trip wasn’t about sightseeing—it was about reclaiming joy.”
Dr Aninda with her father, Dr Roop Sidana and uncle, Dr Ravinder Sharma.
Rebuilding life, brick by brick
Today, Dr Aninda works at a prestigious medical college in Rajasthan, combining her professional expertise with lived experience.
She is passionate about creating awareness around domestic violence, especially among educated, professional women who often suffer in silence due to social stigma.
“No one should go through what I did.”
She is working toward establishing a nonprofit for survivors of domestic abuse, focusing on emotional rehabilitation, legal awareness, and peer support. “I want to create a safe space where women can speak without fear.”
Her advocacy now extends to public platforms, where she shares tips for identifying red flags in relationships, from love bombing to subtle control tactics.
“You can always start over. Your worth isn’t tied to a relationship.”
Dr Aninda was honoured with the IPS Women's Resilience Award in New Delhi in 2024.
Support systems that helped
Dr Aninda highlights three key pillars that helped her rebuild:
1. Therapy: “Therapy helped me unlearn the guilt and recognise the abuse for what it was.”
2. Community: Friends and family played a major role in reminding her of her worth. “Support doesn’t have to fix things; sometimes it just needs to sit beside you.”
3. Solo experiences: From travelling to writing, reclaiming space for herself allowed her to reconnect with joy.
She also advocates for professional helplines, support groups, and legal literacy workshops to be more accessible to survivors.
What you can do if you’re in a similar situation
Recognise red flags: Isolating you from your loved ones, controlling your finances, mocking or belittling your career, or pressuring you into silence are all forms of abuse.
Reach out: Confide in a friend, seek professional help from a therapist, or contact local women’s support groups.
Know that help exists: Helplines such as 1091 (Women Helpline) and the National Commission for Women (7827170170) are available.
Have an emergency plan: Keep important documents, some cash, and contact information readily available.
A story of hope
Two marriages. Two miscarriages. And a life once marked by fear.
Today, Dr Aninda’s story is not one of what she lost, but of everything she found in herself. Strength. Voice. Purpose.
“Every scar tells a story—of not just pain, but of strength and the capacity to rebuild. Resilience is not the absence of fear or pain, but the determination to rise anyway.”
Her journey reminds us that healing is not a linear process, but it is possible. That we are never truly alone. And that even in the darkest chapters of our lives, there is always a way forward.
If you or someone you know is facing abuse, don’t stay silent. Reach out. Help is always closer than you think.
Trigger warning: mentions of suicide. This feature discusses suicide, suicidal thoughts, and mental health challenges. Please read with care, and take a break if you need to. If you or someone you know is struggling, we encourage you to reach out for support.
These were the last words of Himanshu Kashyap, a 24-year-old MBBS student from Chhattisgarh who recently died by suicide in a hostel amid exam stress.
In another case, a young doctor from Muzaffarpur, Bihar, ended his life after failing to clear his postgraduate medical entrance exam. He allegedly died from a gunshot wound from his father’s licensed gun.
Meanwhile, in Madhya Pradesh, a 13-year-old schoolgirl attempted suicide by jumping from the first floor of her school building. She sustained minor fractures on her arms and legs.
Many times, we come across such stories in newspapers or other media platforms.
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According to the National Crime Records Bureau, students account for 7.6 percent of India’s suicide deaths, nearly 13,000 young lives every year.
A recent government report was even starker: suicide has overtaken road accidents and disease as the leading cause of death among Indians aged between 15 and 29, with self-harm being the major cause.
Parents, teachers, and peers are often the first to notice changes; however, many don’t know how to help.
We spoke with Dr Aninda Sidhana, a Rajasthan-based psychiatrist and assistant secretary general of the Indian Psychiatric Society (Northern Zone), to develop a practical, empathetic, evidence-based Suicide Prevention Toolkit.
Dr Aninda emphasises the urgent need for a suicide prevention toolkit to address the rising crisis of youth suicide in India.
Designed for families, educators, and peers, it can become both a shield and a lifeline. Behind every percentage point is not just data, but a young life waiting to be saved.
Here are excerpts from the interview with Dr Aninda.
What makes Indian youth particularly vulnerable to suicide?
Indian youth often navigate a difficult mix of cultural expectations, academic pressures, and personal struggles. Parents and society sometimes dictate career choices, making marks and achievements a matter of family pride.
Many students live away from home for their studies, which can lead to feelings of loneliness, cultural shock, and adjustment issues.
While mental stress is part of the picture, the roots run deeper: rigid academic and career pipelines, social isolation, and a lack of safe spaces for vulnerability.
Stigma remains a huge barrier. Seeking help is often equated with weakness — “boys don’t cry” or “going to a psychiatrist means you’re mad”.
Hierarchy in the family also discourages many youngsters from opening up to parents, fearing they will either be dismissed or cause their parents stress. Rapid modernisation and a growing generation gap also play a role.
Young people may adopt global ideas and lifestyles that parents struggle to accept, creating conflict and further isolation.
Are warning signs different in teenagers compared to college students?
Yes. In teenagers, red flags often include academic decline, isolation, irritability, and sudden shifts in behaviour. Among college students, signs may overlap but also involve substance use, withdrawal from peer activities, and harmful comparisons fuelled by social media or financial pressures.
How can parents or teachers distinguish normal teenage mood swings from concerning behaviour?
Mood swings are normal in adolescence. But concerning patterns emerge when changes persist for weeks and affect social or academic life. Warning signs include:
Withdrawing from friends or family
Declining grades
Expressions of hopelessness
Loss of interest in activities once enjoyed
If these persist, it’s time to step in.
What is the best way to start a conversation if suicide is suspected?
First, build trust. Parents should strive to be friends before disciplinarians. Children open up when they feel safe, not judged. Reassure them that their worth is not tied to marks or achievements.
For teachers, it’s important to create an approachable environment: open doors, no judgment. “I’ve noticed you seem quieter lately. Is something bothering you?” Then listen, without interruption. Many times, a patient’s ear saves a life. Because no one wants to end their life, the main reason for suicide is a cry for help to end the pain.
Dr Aninda suggests asking open-ended questions in a comforting tone, without dismissing the individual’s feelings or resorting to comparisons.
The golden rule is to be empathetic, avoid judgment, instil hope, and encourage professional help. If concerns are serious, inform parents and authorities immediately.
How can classmates responsibly support friends in distress?
Peers play a powerful role. Support can look like:
Simply being present and listening without dismissing their feelings
Sharing contacts for helplines or campus counselling
Checking in regularly with messages or coffee invites
Respecting boundaries while making it clear you are available
Sometimes, a small gesture — a hello, a conversation, a shared walk — can make someone feel less alone.
What should adults avoid saying to distressed youth?
Certain phrases deepen shame and isolation. Avoid:
“Snap out of it.”
“It’s all in your head.”
“When I was your age, I managed fine.”
“Look at Sharmaji’s son, he scored better.”
“We’ve given you everything, what’s there to cry about?”
These invalidate emotions. Instead, show compassion and curiosity.
What role should schools and colleges play?
Institutions are critical in suicide prevention. Every school and college should:
Employ counsellors and ensure psychiatrist visits
Assign mentors for students
Hold regular awareness and literacy sessions
Encourage peer-led groups and anonymous reporting channels
Develop clear policies on suicide prevention and crisis response
How can teachers spot silent struggles in students who don’t speak up?
Awareness programmes should run regularly, not just during crises. Teachers can undergo gatekeeper training like QPR (Question, Persuade, Refer). While not all are psychiatrists, every educator can be a mental health advocate. Empathy, vigilance, and normalised conversations are key.
Students should be sensitised to signs like prolonged sadness, hopelessness, or withdrawal. Peer-awareness programmes help them recognise red flags and know when to encourage friends to seek help.
When is urgent professional help or hospitalisation needed?
Immediate escalation is required when there are:
Active suicidal thoughts or planning
Social withdrawal is so severe that it disrupts daily functioning
Access to means such as drugs or weapons
At this point, professional intervention is lifesaving.
How can parents overcome stigma and encourage help-seeking?
Stigma reduction starts at home but must extend to society. Media and cinema have power; portrayals like Shah Rukh Khan’s discussions of mental illness helped normalise conversations.
Dr Aninda is an award winning psychiatrist. In 2024, she was honoured with the IPS Women Resilience Award in New Delhi.
Platforms like The Better India play a crucial role by sharing real stories, showing young people that seeking help is a strength, not a weakness.
What protective factors prevent suicides, and what therapies work best for Indian youth?
Strong friendships and peer bonds
Supportive family ties
Access to mentors or confidants in schools
Extracurricular activities that provide joy and purpose
Even small rituals, like “parked car conversations” with a friend, can be deeply protective.
Moreover, evidence-based approaches like Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), crisis intervention, and brief therapy have shown strong results. Importantly, therapy should be accessible, stigma-free, and tailored to cultural realities.
How can resilience be built without adding pressure?
Resilience should not mean “toughen up”. It grows through emotional regulation, safe outlets, and unconditional support. Schools can introduce mindfulness, journaling, or creative arts. Parents and teachers should celebrate effort, not just outcomes, helping youth see failure as part of growth.
What role does social media play?
Social media is a double-edged sword. The Papageno effect (which prevents people from suicide by promoting positive examples of suicidal crisis management) shows that hearing recovery stories online can inspire hope.
But irresponsible coverage of suicides, like the Werther effect (exposure to media stories in which identifiable people take their lives), can increase risk. Oversharing methods or glamorising deaths must be avoided. At the same time, social media can connect young people to support networks if used responsibly.
If someone is in immediate crisis, what should be done first?
Treat suicidal thoughts like a heart attack: an emergency!
Do not leave the person alone
Remove potential means of harm
Contact a professional or emergency service immediately
In India, call toll-free numbers 14416 or 1-800 891 4416 (Government’s Tele Manas mental health helpline) or 9152987821 (Sneha Suicide Prevention Helpline)
Speak calmly: “I’m here with you. We’ll get help right now.”
This moment is not about solving everything. It’s about ensuring safety until professional help arrives.
Suicide is not a desire to die; it is a desperate attempt to end unbearable pain. A child’s worth is never tied to marks or achievements. What they need most is kindness, acceptance, and the knowledge that they are loved unconditionally.
Sources:
''Mujhse nahi ho paya': MBBS student dies by suicide at Chhattisgarh hostel over exam pressure': By HT News Desk for Hindustan Times, Published on 6 September 2025.
'Suicide is now the top cause of death among Indians aged 15 to 29': By Barkha Mathur for Business Standard, Published on 8 September 2025.
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We talked by phone and by text. It wasinnocent at first, name exchange, and smalltalk. I had a lot of doctor's appointments due to an accident in the hospital, so I couldn't talk to him all the time. Soon after that, he called me his angel. I was confused. We had just met.recently, so why call me an angel so soon?
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I wrote back a few times, saying I'm sorry.to not talk to him, but I was busy withtherapy and my workload. He says heunderstands, but he really misses me andwishes we could talk soon. It was like he wasobsessed over me. I didn't pick it up at thetime, but this was the start of my troubles.
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In my text, I asked him to help me withsomething. I honestly don't remember what itwas because then he took my walker away. Icouldn't walk far without it. I asked him whatHe wanted to do...
He said he wanted to make love to me.
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He told me to take off my clothes, and I did so.out of fear. I would run, but he took the onlything I needed at the time to escape, so I justsat there, naked and afraid. He gets naked aswell and gets on top of me. He positions myweak legs to where he likes it. I was frozen.Oh no, what's happening to me?
Then he enters me. I felt him coming in and out of me, and I stared at a red monkey.hanging on the dresser. I didn't want to bemyself at the moment. I didn't want to feelpain. I didn't want to feel him assaulting me. Ididn't want to feel anything.
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He made me touch him as he sucked on my breast and puts his hand down there. He feltweirdly soft, and I was shaking inside withanxiety. I didn't want to do this. I wanted him. to stop. I wanted to say stop, but my voicebecame nonexistent. I cried on the inside.
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It hurt so much.
When I got back home, I dialed 988 and toldthem everything. They suggested that they tellsomeone in the morning. I did tell someone.the next morning. I told my wonderful andawesome counselor, and she helped mealot. She called the police, and I went to thehospital. I thought it would soon be over.
Again, I was wrong. I hated that feeling.
A male doctor looked at me down there andI crushed the SANE nurse's hand because itpainful physically and emotionally, andmentally at the same time. I hated myself.so much. Then the detectives came in. Theyasked me questions about my assault. Icouldn't tell them the intimate words, but toldthem everything.
yet he was never arrested. After only twoweeks of investigation, they dismissed it.because he claimed that he didn't know thatHe hurt me. I was devastated to say the least.I started to get nightmares and had thouğhtsof suicide constantly. I frequently cut myself.to not feel the pain of what was taken fromme. I did everything right, yet I'm beingpunished for my assault.
I wanted so badly to have justice, but forFor some reason, I didn't want him to kill himself.because he said he was before, when he toldme things. In some twisted way, I cared for his safety and almost didn't report him.
Was I overreacting?
I was questioning my assault. Was I wrong toreport him? I never fought him off, and I had an orgasm, which I didn't know what an orgasm was, so somehow I liked having sex with him? And people liked him enough.I was very confused. After he came by thisyear, I became scared for my life. He doesn'tI live near by, so this was scarų to me. I startedtaking anxiety medicine to just get out of thehouse.
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...and I didn't want that.
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I'm still learning that I can trust men.without having flashbacks of my assault. Also, learning to trust people who let him in is hard. I fear everything about it, but it doesn'tdefine me as being weak..just cautious of theunknown.
I have coping skills that I use to distract.the memories. I also have therapy, and myawesome support team to talk to wheneverI'm in need of that very support.
One day, I'll get to be the best I can be. I justneed to heal first.
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A few times my business line was WhatsApp video called by men all from Asia/India who were literally performing sexual acts live in the videos.
At first, it was shocking, distressing to see and annoying. Then I realized that I did not in any way deserve that kind of intrusive and offensive behavior, nor did I invite them. The only reason they helped themselves to my private space was because I had literally opened the door to these perverts by putting our business mobile number on LinkedIn. And if someone really wanted to, they could find it on my website.
I noted their names, because some they proudly shared them, like I was supposed to be super excited to hear from them. I reported and blocked them on social media. And I also removed my number from LinkedIn. This seems to have solved the offensive sexual advances.
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SCAM ALERT - WOMEN BEWARE! I received an email from someone claiming to be Paul Wagner (sincere empathy to all of the real Paul Wagners on LinkedIn.). The person who emailed me at my work email address appears to be named Jean Nadeau, not Paul Wagner (the pictures match but I'm not tagging him in this post in case he's actually a victim of identity theft). Whomever the person is, he is not a connection of mine on LinkedIn, and he is apparently using the fact that he is not a connection as a "loophole."
After getting over the initial shock of someone contacting me directly for romantic purposes, followed by me overthinking what to do about it next, I decided to check to further into the person and story before responding. I found several sites with other women talking about being approached on LinkedIn and through other platforms.
This fake Paul Wagner, AKA Jean Nadeau, AKA who really knows, has been doing this for at least two years. Over a year ago, someone blogged about her experience and the email that he sent her. It was essentially identical to mine. One of the pictures he sent me was the same as what he sent her and others.
LinkedIn allegedly informed the person who wrote the below warning blog post that they can't really do anything about it because he is not reaching out through the platform itself. In any case, please be aware if you receive any direct emails that read similar to the wording in this person's article, please know that it came from a "catfisher." https://lnkd.in/eqXpwiuf
#scam, #catfish #identitytheft #linkedin
I have received a good number of unsolicited messages on LinkedIn from profiles that appear fake. In this case, it was true. I received this message and 2 days later, before I had a chance to deal with it, the profile was gone and just said "LinkedIn User". If something looks fishy, it probably is.
This was the FIRST DM
Hi,
I noticed your impressive profile in a group we share, and I wanted to reach out to connect!
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I'm trying to make real connections on LinkedIn but more often than not, as soon as I get a connection I'm spammed with a novel sales pitch that I didn't ask for. No one wants to connect just for networking purposes any more - unless it's through a genuine friend. Any strangers are only in it to see what you want. Then as soon as you say no, they drop you. No further discussions or talk of meeting, having a call or collaboration. And I'm ghosted. So over it!
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Email marketing success is straight forward. But there is one guaranteed way of email marketing failure that I see again and again!
I'm David Hazzard - Co-founder of ZoomMail Email Marketing. ZoomMail is a UK company with over 20 years experience in email marketing.
I see every sort of email, every week. From newsletters to direct emails like this one.
A newsletter email will be graphic and brand heavy. They tend to be impersonal, they may have "Hi Jonathan" in their content but that's it. Its from the organisation's marketing department and its aim is to introduce latest products/service or special offers, driving you to their website.
Direct emails are designed to look like this one. Its a direct email to you, Jonathan. The email comes from me, David. I did click the send button, although it has gone to more than just one person, but it succeeds in the direct email appearance.
The guaranteed way of failing in email marketing, regardless of newsletter or direct email is FAILING TO SEND!. People make all sorts of excuses and come up with reasons as to why their email isn't ready and ultimately do not send their email.
Conversely, the secret to success with email marketing, regardless of marketing style is SEND! Send the email, start a new journey for your existing customers or prospects.
I'd love to catch up and find out what you are doing with your email marketing. If you fancy a chat reply to this email or schedule a call in my calendar.
Greetings ,
Hope all is fine with you Today , I apologize for complimenting the superficial first, however you did catch my eye with the beautiful glow in your smile , I'd like to get to know you more, perhaps if you don't mind, I certainly don't forbid the pleasure of being friends with a HANDSOME man like you. I will be glad if you can reply.
I understand that LinkedIn is not a place to solicit a relationship, rather a professional network for business, and I hope you accept my email with an open heart.
Please accept my apologies for not contacting you directly on LinkedIn and for infringing on your privacy. I will share more about myself upon your response.
Have a lovely week ahead!
Best Regards,
Mz Barbara
I love your smile, let's get to know each other. Can we be friends.. I've tried extending a friend request and haven't been successful.
Can you send me one?
For what purpose?
Why don't we just chat here on Facebook?
He would say I'd rather not it's personal?
Next!
Friendly I suppose:
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Please help me with the above questions, so that I can get back to you with more details in my next email.
I look forward to hearing back from you.
Best Regards,
This is an every day occurrence, people seem not to bother with relationship building any more:
Hope your afternoon is going smoothly.
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Kind Regards,
